Love stories in the public eye are tricky. Fans watch every moment, every post, every rumor. When it comes to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, their romance has grown from collaboration to commitment, and today the world gets to see how it all unfolded.
I’m writing this because their journey is beautiful, it’s a mix of music, friendship, vulnerability, and growth. From their early work together to wedding bells, there’s so much to celebrate. If you’re curious about how two creative souls became life partners, this is your roadmap.
In this article, I’ll take you step by step through their relationship timeline: when they first met, how their bond deepened, when they made it official, and all the tender, fun, and emotional moments in between. Let’s dive in.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: Relationship timeline from music to marriage
Beginnings: from musical collaborators to close friends
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s story begins in the music studio. Back in 2015, Selena released her second studio album, Revival, which included the hit “Same Old Love.” Benny Blanco was among the producers who worked on that track. That collaboration laid the groundwork for a creative friendship. Over time, Blanco helped produce other songs with Gomez, such as “Kill ‘Em With Kindness” from Revival.
Even though they were making music together, there was no romance, at least not publicly. Their connection stayed in the professional and friendly realm for years.
2023: The shift from friends to something more
By mid‑2023, things began to change. Their friendship had strengthened over years of working together, and in 2023, they went on their first date. Benny Blanco later recalled the moment:
"“We were just talking, and then she was like, ‘Do you wanna get dinner?’ We just went and got a drink first, and I didn’t even realize we were on a date… She was like, ‘I would’ve worn something different to this date.’ And I was like, ‘Wait, what? We’re on a date?’ I had no idea!”"Benny Blanco
That anecdote shows how subtly things evolved. Even though they had been close for a long time, this moment marked a turning point.
December 2023: Public confirmation
Rumors had been circulating, but on December 7, 2023, Selena made it clear to the world that she and Benny were together. She commented “Facts” on an Instagram post with the headline “Selena Gomez Seemingly Confirms Relationship With Benny Blanco.”
Shortly afterward, she shared a photo collage with lines like “New York, my favorite moments [with] you this week,” and in the final image, the couple shared a kiss. Blanco even reacted to posts with a heart‑eyes emoji, making their connection more visible.
January 2024: First public sighting and awards events
The couple made their first public appearance at a Los Angeles Lakers game in early January 2024. They sat courtside, looked cozy, and laughed together, hard to miss.
Not long after, they made another public impression at the Golden Globes. Selena was nominated for her work in Only Murders in the Building. While she didn’t win, she posted a playful photo in her Instagram Stories, sitting on Blanco’s lap, with the caption “I won.”
May 2024: marriage talk gets real
In May 2024, Benny appeared on The Howard Stern Show and teased what many fans had hoped to hear:
"“I see love here, I’m predicting marriage.”Benny Blanco
“You got a ring?” Stern asked.
“I don’t have anything. I got no shoes on! I gotta get my act together.”"
He also admitted that when he looks at Selena, he sometimes thinks there's no world where things could be better.
Blanco also said he wants to be a father someday, sharing that he loves being around kids and is excited for their future together.
2025: Creating together and planning a wedding
February & March 2025: Announcing a joint album
On February 14, 2025 (Valentine’s Day), Selena and Benny revealed they would be releasing a joint album titled I Said I Love You First, set to drop on March 21. The project tells their story, from pain to love and everything in between.
The album combines genres like pop, Latin pop, synth‑pop, and more. During a promotional campaign, they both talked about pouring their hearts into the music and letting fans see their vulnerable sides.
First Half of 2025: Wedding planning
Even after getting engaged, the couple admitted that they hadn’t started serious wedding planning in early 2025. In a podcast interview, Benny explained:
"“We both have been working so much… We got engaged, then we were filming music videos, then promo, then she filmed Only Murders in the Building… We both have so many things going on, we haven’t had time to really just do wedding things.”"Benny Blanco
He added they’d chill and eventually make decisions together. In earlier months, the media speculated they would have a two‑day event in Montecito, California, in September 2025. Selena even used Pinterest boards to collect wedding ideas.
September 2025: The wedding weekend
The long-awaited day finally arrived. On September 27, 2025, Selena and Benny tied the knot in Santa Barbara, California. The wedding celebrations began a day earlier, on September 26, with a rehearsal dinner attended by close family and A‑list friends.
The ceremony reportedly took place at Sea Crest Nursery, in front of around 170 guests. White tents were set up for dinner, dancing, and celebration.
Guests included Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran, Only Murders in the Building co-stars Steve Martin and Martin Short, Paris Hilton, and more.
Selena wore a custom Ralph Lauren gown, and Benny wore a tuxedo by Ralph Lauren as well.
Selena confirmed their marriage via Instagram, posting a series of wedding photos with the caption “🤍 9.27.25 🤍.” Benny responded under her post: “My wife in real life.”
From early moments of collaboration to walking down the aisle, their love story has matured into a musical and romantic partnership. Their wedding was described as deeply personal, emotional, and full of joy.
What makes their relationship special in the world of music & pop culture
A love story rooted in music & creativity
One remarkable thing about this couple is how their personal and professional lives are intertwined. Their journey started with Revival and grew into a full album project. When artists fall in love, sometimes their art suffers, but not here. I Said I Love You First is a celebration of both their love and their artistry.
Growth, patience & respect
They didn’t rush things. Even after their engagement, they admitted to taking their time planning and letting life itself guide the process. That patience speaks volumes. Their public moments feel genuine, not staged for headline, because they've slowly built trust and understanding.
Public weddings are challenging, especially for celebrities. But Selena and Benny aimed for something intimate. They chose to surround themselves with close friends and family rather than turning it into a massive spectacle.
Most importantly, they honored their own time, space, and pace, letting romance unfold naturally, not by schedule. That balance is rare in pop culture.